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Book 3 in the Grit by Design Series

GRIT BY DESIGN:
My Choices Matter

โ™ฅ Social Emotional Learning Stories and Activities for Decision Making, Self-Confidence, and Resilience

A Kids Activity Book for Ages 10-12

Ten, eleven, twelve. The years when friendships get complicated, screens compete for everything, and the right choice isn't always obvious. Meet Olivia, Liam, and Steady the Tortoise โ€” three friends navigating the real choices tweens actually face.

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About This Book

With colorful, age-appropriate illustrations, hands-on activities, and a growing toolbox of decision-making skills, My Choices Matter becomes the book a tween keeps coming back to โ€” not because they have to, but because it finally sounds like someone gets it. This isn't a workbook a tween finishes once and forgets. Reflection prompts, affirmations, and honest writing activities turn each page into something worth saving.

What Kids Will Practice

โ™ฅReading Comprehension & Critical Thinking
โ™ฅProblem-Solving & Decision-Making
โ™ฅLogic, Sequencing & Reflection
โ™ฅCommunication & Listening
โ™ฅEmpathy & Honesty
โ™ฅHealthy Relationships
โ™ฅSelf-Confidence & Personal Responsibility
โ™ฅPerseverance & Resilience
โ™ฅPositive Self-Talk

Inside The Book

  • โœ” Five unresolved, honest stories
  • โœ” 75 activities across 5 sections
  • โœ” Logic challenges & word searches
  • โœ” Decision-ranking activities
  • โœ” Real-world scenarios
  • โœ” Reflection prompts & affirmations
  • โœ” Honest writing activities
  • โœ” Steady's Toolbox

Book Sections

๐Ÿ“–Choose Your Circle
๐Ÿ“–Own Your Screen
๐Ÿ“–Trust Your Compass
๐Ÿ“–Talk To Me
๐Ÿ“–Read ยท Lead ยท Succeed

Free Book 3 Downloads

Bring the journey off the page with these free printable resources designed exclusively for Book 3.

My Choices Matter Stickers

My Choices Matter Stickers

Stickers for Book 3 - Growth Journey.

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7-Day Challenge

7-Day Challenge & Sticker Page

My Choices Matter 7-Day Challenge.

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Who This Book Is For

Parents Teachers Homeschool Families Counselors Kids ages 10โ€“12

Ideal for children learning to understand emotions, friendships, confidence, and resilience.

Series Connection

This is Book 2 in the Grit by Design series. It continues the Growth Mindset Lifestyle approach with Steady the tortoise and child-friendly stories and activities.

  • Book 1: Introduces the foundation of growth mindset.
  • Book 2: Focuses on emotions, confidence, SEL, and resilience.
Author TLM ๐ŸŒฟ

Help your child build confidence, resilience, and emotional awareness one small step at a time.